While it is important to be true to others, it is also important to be true to yourself too. If you are not true to yourself eventually inner conflict will arise that you have to deal with. But what is it that I am talking about? To be true to one self is to not lie to yourself and in effect not lie to others as well. Some times we create a facade of ourselves and present this to the outside world.
Obviously it is not a true picture of who we are, but this will lead others to misinterpret how we are like. However if we portray ourselves as how we are, that is to not apologize for our own words, which is true at the time, to be confident with oneself, to hold oneself in the only way that one could be, there will be little mistaking of who we are.
However if we continue with the cherade eventually people will wonder about your sincerity or become surprise by your "out of character" actions, which could lead to inner frustrations that others are putting you in a stereotypical box of which you yourself is responsible for.
So be true to yourself and others will see the true you too.
My complexes + your complexes
15 years ago
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