The problem between freewill and destiny.

Each one of us has the freewill to make whatever choices we want. But destiny rules that we let go of control of ourselves and let the universe control us. Two differing viewpoints.

The solution as I see it is not to push away destiny and accept freewill nor accept destiny and pushh away freewill but rather to have freewill and bring inward destiny. To let go of control and to make the choices that we see fit and follow our own destiny.

The 3 Rules of Being

1. Calm your spirit
2. Be yourself
3. live free

Living life to the max

The way I see it your life is either rule by fate or freewill.

If it is rule by fate, then everything you do does not matter and it will turn out the way it will anyway, so might as well live it to the max and not waste what time you have.

If it is rule by freewill, then everything is left to chance and therefore there is a 50/50 chance that something bad or dire may happen to you the very next day. So live it to the max as if it were your last, because if everything is up to chance then it might as well be.

So just live life not by rules or convention but how you want to, as no matter what you do you can not control how it will end anyway.