Break down the wall.

A wall exist to keep something in or something out.

So too is the wall we erect, it is to keep out our fears, and keep ourself inside protected.

But the wall that you erect merely make you more fearful and stop us from showing our true self to others.

So break down the wall so we can show others our true self and face your fears up front so that we may overcome it and be stronger for it.

I do not mind what is on your mind

What people think of us we can not control.

The only thing we can control is what we think of ourselves.

If other things that you should jump off a cliff, should you?

What they think of you should hold no bearing on what you do or what you become.

Brush aside the worry that you have in your heart about what others may think of you and be free of unnecessary burden you may have placed upon yourself.

So do not mind what others have on their mind, but mind only what is on yours.

Live for yourself, and not for others

It is a very kind offer for you to live for others, very self-sacrificial. It could also be seen that you see yourself as unworthy to live.

The more you place yourself in the role of the self-sacrifice the more you are going to blame others for the problems which you have incurred upon yourself.

But if you live for yourself and not for others, then the only person you can blame is yourself, on the upside the only person you can thank is also yourself.

By living for others you will feel the weight of them on your shoulder but if you live for yourself then you have only your own problem to consider.

So live for yourself and you will find life a much happier place to be and less of a burden.

Helping others

I would like to contribute to Methas post about helping others and add a little something from myself. Through my experience and through what life has shown me, it is impossible to help others. Only they can help themselves. But we can always inspire others by showing a proper example of how we live ourselves. We can be the light that will give the light to others in order to begin helping themselves. So help yourself and allow yourself to shine brightly in order for others to help themselves. Even those who will not want help, they can be light up to begin their journey.