The 3 Rules of Living a Successful Life

1. Fight for life
2. Take responsibilities for your action
3. Never ever give up

Do not demand of others for what you can do yourself

Sometime in your life you would "relegate" responsibilities to others so that you do not have to do it. That is not relegating that is shirking responsibilities. If you can do it yourself with nno fuss why not do it and be done with it.

Give responsibilities to others only because you feel you have nothing to bring to the table or they can do it better than you can. If they can achieve it but won't don't make demand for them to do it either or they will just feel pressured and leave you alone.

If someone make demand on you when you do not have to do it, do you not feel as pressured. So when giving responsibilities to others do it with a light heart and no expectations so that you will not be hurt by it nor other feel pressured by it.

Live for yourself, and not for others

It is a very kind offer for you to live for others, very self-sacrificial. It could also be seen that you see yourself as unworthy to live.

The more you place yourself in the role of the self-sacrifice the more you are going to blame others for the problems which you have incurred upon yourself.

But if you live for yourself and not for others, then the only person you can blame is yourself, on the upside the only person you can thank is also yourself.

By living for others you will feel the weight of them on your shoulder but if you live for yourself then you have only your own problem to consider.

So live for yourself and you will find life a much happier place to be and less of a burden.